an essay about friendship from the new Yorker

Nineteen seventy-eight, eighth grade: I’m five feet nine, a hundred and three pounds, and am often mistaken for a girl. Dave, a kid in my homeroom, same height, blond like me, is somehow fat and skinny at the same time. We both know “Let’s Get Small,” the Steve Martin album (“We’re basically into the intellectual scene”), and, although we use it to transfix girls and keep cretins off balance, there’s something else going on. In a romantic coupling, you turn inward, but friendships put you shoulder to shoulder to take on the world.